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Wine, Sex & Chill | Sex on Your Period

Taking a stand on the things you love, makes you achieve your hearts desires.

Hello! Hello! Hello!

Sex for me has become therapeutic and it has gotten to a point that I enjoy every encounter as my entire being is able to be in the moment.

When it comes to sex on my period, it was something that I told myself that I would never do, but I’ve learnt it is all in how it is done.20181007733813693Correct timing and ensuring you vocalize to your partner how you want it done. I have added sex to my cycle right before my periods in order to help minimize my cramping and control the hornyness. 😉😉😉

Is sex on your period, maybe before and after be something you would do? Is it something you already do? Let me know.

Talk to you soon.

Jo. ♥

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Wine, Sex & Chill |It’s Not Just Sex

Hard work does pay off.

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Have you ever been approached and asked to sell your body for sex?
Well, I got approached a few weeks ago and I must say it was very strange for me. Imagine waking up to a message asking you to have sex with strangers for Ksh.40,000 per client, a bit odd, right?

As much as I enjoy it, I have my rules that I follow to a tee and I’m not about to change them.

Here are my thoughts on the whole issue;

Would you sell your body?
Let me know.

Jo.  ♥

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Wine, Sex & Chill | When to Define the Relationship

Be as honest and as straight forward with your partner as much as you can.


Mid week of the last week of April, can whoever is stepping on the accelerator please ease up a little bit. I’ve just been running up and down working and planning a few things, and seeing how things are going, end of here will be here and we shall just be recapping on again.

I am an advocate of talking things over with your partner as this ensures that any hiccups that arise are dealt with.
Matildah and I had a good time discussing this topic and I hope that we helped you understand the importance of being true to what you want.

Do you agree with us? Should you define the relationship in the beginning or later on?

Jo. ♥

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Wine, Sex & Chill | Sexual Relationships

At times you just need someone to help you escape from the realities, even if it’s just for a while.

Hey, Hey, Hey.

Sex used to just be a form of release for me till I understood what I wanted from the relationships in my life.
It’s okay to love sex, it’s okay to enjoy it. We currently live in a society where everything you do is judge, so why not do what you love and just ignore the judgy Mcjudgy characters who think they know everything.

Being that I’m in my third sexual relationship, I feel like I have enough tips and tricks to share with you what I think about SRs.

In episode 2, I explain what SRs are to me and the lessons I’ve learnt so far.

Leave me a comment and let me know if you’re in an Sexual Relationship and how it’s going for you.

Jo. ♥

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Wine, Sex & Chill | Let’s Talk About Sex & What Sex is.

I wish I knew what I knew now when I was 16.

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The excitement that is within me is just a bit too much. You know that feeling you used to get on Christmas day when you woke up to presents? Well, this is just like that, but I know it won’t end.

I have always been open to talking about the ‘Taboo’ topics. I never saw the need of hiding them or keeping them behind closed doors because it affects everybody. Especially in an African context ‘The Birds & The Bees’ is a no go zone and then people get shocked when 12 year olds get pregnant, what do you expect if you don’t educate us?

To kick off this conversation, I just wanted to explain what sex is and what it means to me. I have always seen it as a beautiful thing when done right and I am just here as a Psychologist with sexual experience sharing it with you. Sex should no longer be a taboo topic.

Grab your favourite drink, even though its a Monday morning, it should be 5pm somewhere, and let’s have a chat.

I hope you enjoyed the first episode.
If you have any questions do let me know and if you are shy to post it publicly, feel free to message me privately.